Good evening, ladies.
Do you ever feel like your’e being swallowed up by the world? By TV, Smartphone, Internet (Facebook, Twitter, Social Media)? Do you catch yourself getting a little panicky thinking, ‘I know these days go too quickly, I want to make sure I do not let a moment slip by?’ I do too. It is more difficult to be intentional in today’s world than in any time period. Ever….I mean think about it…Women in eras gone, they did not have Facebook vying for their attention. They did not have a phone and a constant way to connect with others at any second of the day. They were not silently competing with one another through Instagram photos. No, I do not believe that it was any easier to raise a child then, than now. But, the refreshing thought of zero distractions is something that I think about often.
I have often contemplated leaving Facebook, shutting down Twitter (I really do not use Twitter often), and Instagram. I have thought of getting rid of my smartphone.
Then I think about how the women behind the blogs, and websites, and behind the pictures, have changed my life course. These women have shared and bared. They have shown me what it is to become a woman who can live for God, and the way he intends in doing what I do (being a wife and mother). I have been inspired by these women. So, I think, I need to set limits instead. Be intentional. That word. Intentional….it is my mantra. I want to be all there.
I want to watch my daughters hair blow in the wind as she swings on the swingset, I want to see the sweat on the brow of my son as he plays catch outside, I want to watch our one year old explore his world, I want to have real conversation and hand-holding moments with my husband. I want to be all there.
Do you ever think, what a perfect way Satan has been able to get hold of us, getting us distracted, and pulling us into something that is so completely time consuming and beautiful-moment-wasting? I think about our computer, TV, phones….I think about how they are portals into the world and the worlds ways.
So many young women are influenced today by reality TV shows (like Real Housewives of such and such County) and are left feeling hollow, not good enough, and empty because they want a life that is comparable to the lives of these women on TV. Would it not be refreshing to have more of a culture in our world that we could observe “Real Housewives of Gods Kingdom” instead? I wish there was more of that out there…
The worlds ways are distracting, and seem glamorous and tempting.
I want simplicity.
I want joy.
I want the abundant life that Christ died for me to have.
I want to live a life of thanksgiving and thankfulness.
I want to smile and laugh and run with my kids. Giggle at something funny, watch lighting outside, read a book together, cook a meal together…I want to be there….here…
I want to spend time with my husband…what a gift.
So my challenge going into the weekend, and the next week (and always) is this: Put the phone down, shut down the computer, be intentional. Set times for such things….and enjoy the life God has given me, not missing one. single. moment.
Will you join me?